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Post by Flapjack » Thu Aug 12, 2010 1:28 am

Why? Seriously, I'm asking.

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Post by catfishrivers » Thu Aug 12, 2010 2:13 am

why worry about it?
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Post by Flapjack » Thu Aug 12, 2010 2:21 am

Because it's killin me inside.

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Post by catfishrivers » Thu Aug 12, 2010 2:25 am

but it's mostly only your own thoughts about it all killing yourself over it...where's the pressure coming from? having a girlfriend or not shouldn't make you radically happier or sadder. In those cases, the relationship is some magic bandaid for something else.
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Post by Flapjack » Thu Aug 12, 2010 2:29 am

god damn, but what?

I can't figure it out man... I'm good looking, smart, multi-talented, creative, funny, spontaneous, reserve, polite, honest and fit. Plus I'm going to school to further my education. I have no kids, no record, no bullshit, but I constantly get skipped over. Why the fuck? Do I need to turn myself into a total scum bag just to get women?

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Post by catfishrivers » Thu Aug 12, 2010 2:39 am

the best advice is to keep on bettering yourself for reasons that make you happy in the first place. The energy a person emits when they are in that mode is what attracts other people to them usually, in terms of a meaningfully long relationship anyhow. Don't worry about it so much and reroute that energy into something else you love.

I think since there are 6 billion plus of us now, the mating reflex is getting screwed with on every level.
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Post by Flapjack » Thu Aug 12, 2010 2:49 am

I know, fuck. Maybe I should be focusing on other things for now.

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Post by kedabra » Thu Aug 12, 2010 7:05 am

Do you still have totally blue skin and a glowing third eye?

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Post by Maslow » Thu Aug 12, 2010 9:00 am

chicks get offered dick daily..they can sense when you are on the prowl...as a result they put their defenses up when things are like that.

Stop looking...stop caring...give up the hunt... Be picky....with them....critique them...and soon they will come.

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Post by Solomon » Thu Aug 12, 2010 9:40 am

Have you tried zoosk? And as as someone else said, don't appear like you are desperate for a relationship even if you are. Im not the best to ask in all honesty...im sure lady luck will be on your side before you know it, i think much of it has to do with luck. Unless you are one of 'those' types that can enter a room and have girls falling over you left right and center.

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